With the surprising early-season struggles of the HC men's basketball team, the debate on the
Crossports message board has really heated up. Several posters have entered panic mode, threatening to stay home from games, and questioning Coach Ralph Willard's various decisions.
Stay home from games? I believe it's always more rewarding to continue supporting a team through its struggles, rather than abandoning it. The payoff is far greater in the end.
Thankfully, newbie poster "Soulman" has
piped in with some of the most lucid comments I've read in recent days:
Part of the joy of college basketball is watching teams and players grow year to year--and then have to grow again when seniors graduate (yes, graduate!)...And within that, it's fun to watch and root for the program grow as a whole.
These are students, after all. Students with real career goals, students who represent Holy Cross well, and students of whom we can be proud. There is joy in following Holy Cross athletics, even in the tough times (like football, post-Duffner).
Soulman continues:
I want to see the team win, win a lot, and win big, just as much as (and maybe even more) than the next guy. I'm as die hard as anyone at the Hart Center. I was at two of the three NCAA games, on the floor with the band, losing my voice and greeting the players back at the hotel. But that's the thing--this isn't the game to watch if you want to rip into players for not doing it right. That's what the pros are for...But Holy Cross basketball players are young men who are students and people who are going to do things other than play ball for the rest of their lives. Yes, they want to win. But personal attacks and criticism of character is unwarranted and ultimately damaging to the spirit of the game and Holy Cross basketball. Let's root hard, but root with respect for the school and the students who play. Leave the character evaluations to Ralph, who does a great job, in my book, of balancing real-life priorities with his team, and who keeps things in perspective.
Thank you, Soulman. And I'd apply your thoughts to
all the student-athletes, not just the men's basketball players, at Holy Cross.
Final thought on this topic for now:
IN RALPH WE TRUST